Rigby & Nathan

September 6, 2025
135 Days To Go!

Rigby & Nathan

September 6, 2025
135 Days To Go!

Our Story

Written In the Stars

The story of Rigby and Nathan began more than 50 years ago, in Rock Island, Illinois. In 1967 Nate's father, James, met Barbara "Cookie" through the Quad City Music Guild. The duo would become friends for life, and keep in touch over 5 decades and even across a time zone or two.


Enter Nate. January 13th, 1994, Nate was born under a waxing crescent moon in Geneva, Illinois. Two years later and 1,000 miles away, Rigby would also be born under this same moon in Manchester, New Hampshire. Over the next few decades, Rigby and Nate's shared love for learning would lead them both to living in Boulder, Colorado.


During a visit home in November, 2021, Rigby's mother, Melissa, had an important person whom she wanted her to meet. Melissa was beginning to form a friendship with her neighbor, Bobbie, a retired teacher and member of the Wolfeboro Garden Club and Maker's Mill. At their meeting, the lovely and talented Bobbie (aka Barbara, aka Cookie) would supply Rigby with not only the world's best handmade mittens, but also the phone number of a nice young man in Boulder, Nate Reed. Just a few weeks later, Rigby and Nate met for their first date at Trident coffee shop on Pearl Street.


In the two years they have spent together, Rigby and Nate have navigated life's joys and sorrows, secured by one another's love. During this time, they each resonated with quotes as they came to know a love which they never had before. For Rigby, it is from Mitch Albom's Tuesdays with Morrie, "The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to something that gives you purpose and meaning." For Nate, the quote comes from Carl Sagan, "For small creatures such as we, the vastness (of the Cosmos) is bearable only through love." It is through their shared sense of meaning and kismet way of meeting that Rigby and Nate came to decide upon the theme for their wedding: "Written in the Stars" or the less succinct "Love is the Only Rationale Meaning of Life and the Universe Itself".


Nate and Rigby are over the moon to celebrate their cosmic coupling surrounded by their dearest loved ones.

ILLINOIS. From top left to right: Jim Reed yearbook photo, Quad City Music Guild, Jim and best friend Bill Bateman. From bottom left to right: Jim and his wife Eileen with Cookie, Cookie and Jim, Cookie and Jim.

June 01, 1967

ILLINOIS. From top left to right: Jim Reed yearbook photo, Quad City Music Guild, Jim and best friend Bill Bateman. From bottom left to right: Jim and his wife Eileen with Cookie, Cookie and Jim, Cookie and Jim.
ILLINOIS: Nate is born! Spoiler: He's the one on the left.

January 13, 1994

ILLINOIS: Nate is born! Spoiler: He's the one on the left.
NEW HAMPSHIRE: Rigby is born!

August 17, 1996

NEW HAMPSHIRE: Rigby is born!
COLORADO: Nate, Oliver, Elliot, and Jim move to Buena Vista.

June 01, 1997

COLORADO: Nate, Oliver, Elliot, and Jim move to Buena Vista.
Nate graduates from the University of Illinois, and returns to Colorado to continue his graduate studies at the University of Colorado, Boulder.

May 15, 2017

Nate graduates from the University of Illinois, and returns to Colorado to continue his graduate studies at the University of Colorado, Boulder.
Rigby's mother, Melissa, marries Joshua Burke and they move into a home together in Wolfeboro, New Hampshire.

October 04, 2019

Rigby's mother, Melissa, marries Joshua Burke and they move into a home together in Wolfeboro, New Hampshire.
After graduating from Saint Michael's college in Vermont, Rigby moves to Colorado to attend the University of Denver. After completing her program she moves to Boulder.

June 11, 2021

After graduating from Saint Michael's college in Vermont, Rigby moves to Colorado to attend the University of Denver. After completing her program she moves to Boulder.
Rigby is introduced to Melissa's new neighbor in Wolfeboro, Cookie. She tells Rigby about Nate, and this grainy photo was the only one Rigby could find of him on the internet. He seemed pretty cute!

November 29, 2021

Rigby is introduced to Melissa's new neighbor in Wolfeboro, Cookie. She tells Rigby about Nate, and this grainy photo was the only one Rigby could find of him on the internet. He seemed pretty cute!
Nate and Rigby meet for coffee at Trident on Pearl St.

December 04, 2021

Nate and Rigby meet for coffee at Trident on Pearl St.
Nate prepares their apartment and kitties for a magical return home from a night out with #1 secret keeper and bridesmaid Laura. Nate proposes!

August 30, 2024

Nate prepares their apartment and kitties for a magical return home from a night out with #1 secret keeper and bridesmaid Laura. Nate proposes!
Celebrating three years of creating memories and adopting kittens together.

December 04, 2024

Celebrating three years of creating memories and adopting kittens together.